I agree with Gillian because I battle the same insecurity everyday in my relationship.Am I thin enough for him, pretty enough for him, rich enough for him? And this is an awful pattern to get into because you're putting 98% of your energy thinking about how he is going to ultimately screw you over like the other guy did instead of working on the relationship and enjoying it.

This is not the pot calling the kettle black because I would appreciate some self-confidence boosting tips too. But I know that you have to fight the urge constantly to think those thoughts or you'll be the one to wreck the relationship.

kindred spirit