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Dear Panel,

If I am "dating" a younger man who calls sporadically, has never taken me out on a real date, and, of who, seems to only be interested in talking and sex (not necessarily in that order), but seems to have some intelligence and potential, how can I re-route the relationship into one more meaningful? Do men need to be told what's good for them or should I bow out now with some remaining self-respect?

looking for love in all the wrong ages

Lefty Answers:

Dear Looking,

Good relationships should be equal, with both partners putting into the relationship what they feel comfortable with, and taking out what makes them fulfilled. If you're not getting what you need out of this relationship, then it's time to move on. You've got me curious; what would you like to do with this young man? Do you mean go to football games? Go to basketball games? Watch hockey on TV? If you mean go dancing or go to the opera, what's stopping you from suggesting those kind of dates, the ones that you want to go on? If you suggest something and he turns the idea down, then definitely the relationship isn't right for you. But if you never suggest anything, then what relationship would be right, either with a younger OR an older man? Lefty

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