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Dear Secretly in
Love,
Unrequited love
is a bitch, ain't it? It looks like you are up against the
rock and the hard place. If you tell her, you could lose her;
if you don't tell her, you could lose her. And doesn't it
feel good holding that secret torch for her? And feeling jealous
of her current boyfriend and all her future boyfriends?
Come
on. You've developed feelings for her now and the best situation
would be if she responds. Her boyfriend has figured this out.
If she flirts with you all the time, she's probably figured
it out too.
 Why
not have a heart-to-heart with your "best friend", or at least
make it clear that you like her in that special way? Maybe
she can date 2 guys at once -- you all seem a little young
to be exclusive for too long.
But what have you got
to lose? It may put a strain on your friendship to bring things
out in the open, but it seems like most parties are already aware
of what's going on, and signs of that are already showing.
- Lefty |
