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Back to what triggered this response.

Jody said:

"In the grand scheme of life, a few good "mail" friends are worth more than an equal number of boyfriends."

A Reader Responds:

I kind of both agree/disagree because...yes its not worth really losing a great friend to anything. But this "could" be about love. And "if" that is what Megan is looking for right now, then yes she should go for it, because the only part left is for Megan to meet him the other half of the way.But I'm not saying that he loves her already, just that there is that good chance already since he has those kind of feelings for her.

I'm pretty much in the same situation as Megan (but I'm a guy) but the thing is, the girl I like doesn't know it yet, but yet I feel like she is kind of my sister, but she's called me her bigger bro (she's the oldest sibling) since I talk to her like one by helping her out. We've had a couple of situations where it didn't seem like I was her bro (not intimate), but somewhat a boyfriend.

But as to Megan's question "but how do I know if I like him or if there's anything going to be between us?" You just have to keep asking yourself if you like him, or have those kind of feelings for him. Don't just like him just because he said he likes you. Also, you'll never know if anything will happen between you two unless you try, right?

Like I said earlier, all you have to do is meet him half way, he's already there waiting for you. But if you are as good friends as you are now, then even if the relationship should happen to end if you are together, then you know you'll be friends forever and not be bitter towards each other. I hope this helped you out, I'm in the same situation, and I'm still wishing on a *star*

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