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Personally, I think
that platonic relationship very much exist. I have several
"just friends" relationship with guys and we all laugh at
the thought of us ever dating.
There are different
types of love ... Eros for romantic and affectionate love,
and phileo love ... Meaning brotherly love. These have different
emotional attachment to the other. Whether a man or a woman
is more capable of having a platonic relationship isn't fair.
There are some
guys I know that could easily have just a friendship, and
several girls too. And several guys and girls who can't keep
in the frame of mind of platonic relationships.
To say one sex
is more capable than the other is a huge generalization. It's
the maturity level of the individual person that matters.
As far as in marriages,
although it may not be widely accepted, it isn't impossible.
My father would have lunch with a female friend on her birthday
with nothing happening.
-- Katharine
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