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I am .. a 21 year old professional ... I am having this craving to wild...

He is 21, a bouncer at a local night club, he is wild & crazy and he lives life to the fullest...

My cousin Ryan, his best friend

Are you saying that you "hardly ever go out"? or that you "don't go out with your cousin Ryan"?

Once upon a time... A week ago, Friday, my cousin Ryan and I went out, which I hardly ever do. We ran into his friend Patrick, so for most of the night the three of us went out and had so much fun. Patrick kissed me ... we both are not looking for anything serious just someone to have fun with.

Saturday we hung out again watching the football game, we had dinner, then I was feeling sick so I went home. He kissed me again that night before I left. We did not exchange phone numbers. A couple of days later my cousin asked me if I wanted his number, but my cousin said "forget it, I'll give him yours" a week went by and he never called.

I went out with my cousin again, and once again Patrick joined us. Patrick acted as if we've known each other forever. Patrick was very affectionate all night. We, the three of us, drove in one car, and my cousin and I wanted to leave, but Patrick had to meet someone real quick and asked me to wait at my cousins house 1 hour, so just the two of us could do something. I told him that I won't wait, but he begged, so I did.

He called me an hour later and said he couldn't find a ride, but he should be leaving soon, and if I couldn't wait he would understand. Of coarse I didn't wait.

Earlier that evening Patrick told me that if for some reason ! we didn't see each other he will get my number from my cousin. Well he hasn't called.

What should I think? My cousin would never introduce me to a guy that uses women. We are playing this game and I want control of it ... How do I get that? *Since he works in a night club, he has girls all over him all the time, he hates it... I think that is why he is attracted to me because I don't chase him.

Cousin


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