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What should I think? My cousin would never introduce me to a guy that uses women. We are playing this game and I want control of it ... How do I get that? *Since he works in a night club, he has girls all over him all the time, he hates it... I think that is why he is attracted to me because I don't chase him.

Cousin

Lefty Answers:

He's attracted to you because you don't chase him? Are you KIDDING? What would it take for you to be chasing him? I usually have to screw up all my nerve to ask for a woman's phone number, believing that I've interpreted a half-smile correctly to mean that she is interested in me.

You are just jealous, Lefty. He could truly need to feel more comfortable.

You've given this guy your number and he never asked for it, you've been making out with him when you don't know him, and you've waited an hour for him while he was attending to some weird business. And you think that he hates having girls all over him? Who told you that?? Oh wait a minute, let me guess, HE DID!!

Come on, you're half right when you say "we are playing this game". Look, he's a player. If you are looking for someone to have fun with, I suppose you could call him when you feel like doing something and want someone to do it with. But it's kind of hard for me to seriously advise you how to play this game because:

  1. He sounds like a loser.
  2. He knows he has "hand" in any relationship with you.
  3. I don't know why you would want to play with a guy like this.

I suppose you could do something nasty like invite him to a concert and then have to cancel and reschedule for another time. But wouldn't you rather play bridge than nasty games of this sort?

Oh yeah, I forgot to say that I'm not too impressed with bouncers who "live life to the fullest".

Don't put words in my mouth! He could be OK.

You'd probably be better off listening to what Hope has to say because I would say find someone nice and forget this loser, and don't go double dating with your redoubtable cousin.

Lefty

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