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Dear Waiting,
Don't wait any
longer!
Your priorities
are in the right place. Jason has a problem with his heart.
He either thinks that he can't love anyone except some kind
of idealized conception of the perfect woman, or he has hardened
his heart to the point where he will never love someone properly.
His last relationship
is the perfect example...6 years! And, he has admitted he
is repeating the pattern with you.
 Jason
has his own journey to truly find his own capacity to love
someone else. I feel sorry for him.
But you are clearly
a caring, loving person who wants what's best for you and
your daughter. If a serious committed relationship is what
you're after with mutual feelings and a deepening of love,
then don't wait...run!
Oh, and don't think
you can change him. It won't work.
On some level he's
chosen you because he knows it won't work. He's afraid to
face true feelings. And if you stay you only convince him
that he can get away with the hiding he's doing from himself.
Charlie
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