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Are you still a
virgin? In my opinion, you are if you believe you are. What
anyone else thinks shouldn't really matter.
What's more important
in your question is what's going on between you and your boyfriend.
It sounds like you two could get "carried away" again and
the result could be dangerous if you're not prepared. Therefore,
you need to decide where you stand and act accordingly.
Here's what I think
you should do:
- Decide how important
it is to you to stay a virgin until you are married. (I
am not saying that you should or shouldn't stay a virgin.
That is a personal choice that only you can make for yourself.)
- Make it very
clear to your boyfriend (and yourself) what your decision
is.
 No
penis-vagina contact
-
 If
it is important to you to stay a virgin, then you and your
boyfriend need to take responsibility for what happens -
in other words, absolutely no penis-vagina contact. If he
violates this again, you need to kick his ass much, much
further than the curb. I'd suggest Siberia or Saskatoon.
This would show a great lack of respect for you.
- If it isn't
that important to you to stay a virgin then you need to
decide whether or not you are going to have sex with this
particular man. If you are, you decide when it's going to
be. It's your body and you get to be in charge of it. Also,
because it's your body, you need to take care of it. Be
sure to use condoms both to protect yourself from diseases
like AIDS and to keep yourself from getting pregnant. Tell
your boyfriend, "No glove, no love."
Take charge of
the situation and be firm about what you want.
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