Dear Panel,

I'm a 14 year old who likes this guy.

The problem is that he's married. I don't want to be a home wrecker. He tells me that he likes me and all. He tells me the reason why he married his wife was because he had sex with her and she made him marry her.

The thing is that she's in the Phillipines and he's in Singapore. I like him a lot and all, but in the end I'll end up getting hurt. That's one thing I don't want.

What do I do?

– Young Singapore Homewreaker