Everyone's Different
There is no set answer for what guys or girls want for Valentine's
Day. For every woman who wants diamonds, there is a woman who would
prefer a much smaller token of affection. For every man who "doesn't
do" Valentine's Day, there are others who spend hours planning the
perfect surprise.
Everyone Wants To Be Understood
What I think everyone wants for Valentine's Day (and every day
really) is to be understood by their partner. I think if there are
expectations about this holiday that aren't met, it can be a real
source of tension.
Communicate Your Hopes Before V-Day
The key is to communicate any hopes for V-Day before the day itself.
That should cut back on the disappointment factor.
Gillian
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