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Dear Jay,
It sounds to me that you had a problem with respecting girls. Taking
part in a "SEXFEST" is something that will just result
you in being talked about and looked down upon by females. There
maybe a few out there that would enjoy dating someone like that
but they aren't looking for a long relationship.
The chances of you getting a secure relationship right now seem
to be very low because the women think that your still some kind
of "manwhore".
Stop Having Sex
My advice would be to not have sex for a while, try patching up
your wrongings with the girls you "screwed over". Yes
this will take a while, even months, but it is the most secure way
to have them change your image.
If you do go on dates, stay away from being physical with them.
Try to find other ways to enjoy the night. Remember that it takes
two people to make a relationship and if both people are not happy
then you're by yourself.
Good luck and remember patience.
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