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Dear Guilty,
Hi. Thank you for your question. Here is my answer for you. I hope
it's helpful.
First of all, it seems to me that your boyfriend has a problem
with trust. Perhaps he has reason to think this way, perhaps not.
But, if I were you, I would tell him sincerely how you feel. Maybe
he is jealous over these other guys, even though you've told him
that they are just male friends.
Find Out Why He's Insecure
It seems to me that he has a problem with insecurity. Maybe you
need to explain what you want in this relationship from him. He
might that feel that you are not giving him enough attention, or
not treating him properly, something.
Talk Honestly With Him
Whatever it is, you have to find out and be open. Honesty is the
best policy. If you can clearly show him that these other guys are
not a threat to him, I think he will be fine. But that's hard to
do. It takes time and perseverance.
If this boyfriend is "the one" for you in your life,
then the sooner you have a heart-to-heart talk with him, the better
it will be.
This "cleaning out of the email box" issue is just another
thing he finds unsettling. I think you have to get to the crux of
the matter with him.
Why not take him out to a quiet place, away from phones and people,
maybe have a picnic and then while you're eating, just tell him
how you honestly feel about him. You can't lose with being honest.
It's the best way.
I hope I've been helpful to you. Thank you and best of luck with
it.
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