Honestly, your question is probably not even valid at this point since I'm sure that by the time you read this, he will already have called (or not called).

This is the more interesting question to me: why are you calling him your soul-mate when you are at the point that you're so worried that getting hot and heavy (or not getting hot and heavy enough, I can't tell from your letter what you're worried about) will push him so far away from you that he will never call again?

That's just really bizarre to me. It might be bizarre to him too, if he knows you're imagining the two of you at 60 after a couple of dates.

I don't mean any disrespect to you, I just want to suggest you take a look at what's going on in your head. If he doesn't call you, it will almost certainly not be related to the amount of smooching you did. And it might not even be related to you specifically.

I'm a little concerned you set yourself up for a big fall, every time, if this is a normal pattern with you. It may not be. Something to think about.

P.S. You can always call him.