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Dear Ron,
I might be wrong - but
I think you answered your own question. You want to miraculously
succeed, but are upset that guys have been branded as wanting to
get girls into bed. Is that not what you want to do?
So, either forget trying
to pick up women and just enjoy yourself when you go to discos (and
meet some nice people, women, and men too) or admit that what you
are trying to do is sleep with women, approach women more honestly
by letting them know you are interested in a physical thing (you
may want to duck after you say that!) and see if any take you up
on it. Maybe they are not paying attention to you because they want
to sleep with men and you are not indicating that that is what you
want.
Be
Honest About What You Want
If you are honest with
yourself about what you want (either to have fun or to pick up people)
you will seem more honest, open, and confident in general - and
have more success!
– Judith
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