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Dear very Confused Damsel,
It
is unclear by your letter whether you are currently enrolled in
this man's class or he merely works at the university you attend.
If you are currently in his class, do nothing until the class is
over.
As to how to proceed,
I would recommend making your interest known but letting him make
the decision.
There
may be professional ramifications for him such as rules about not
fraternizing with the students. In that case, whether to go around
those guidelines must be his decision if he is going to assume that
risk.
Showing your interest
however, can be tricky. You can try recommending that he attend
some topic related event ( a speech or museum showing related to
his area of expertise) at which you are also attending. If he accepts
and arranges to sit with you, he may be interested. However you
still must act cool. Let him make the first move.
There
is still a chance that he thinks of you only as a cute college kid
and the embarrassment would be fatal if you threw yourself at him.
If he has an interest
in you romantically, he will likely take the opportunity of seeing
you away from campus and the watchful eyes of his colleagues to
act upon it. If he does not, just admire from a distance. Good luck.
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