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Dear Panel,

gosh! my boyfriend is *choking* me by degree! At first I felt taken care of when he was really concerned about me, like when I went out alone (even if I went shopping) or just visiting my family and friends but now I feel suffocated.

I mean I used to go out whenever I feel like it or on a whim but now I have to tell him where I am going or who I am going to see and how long will I be gone. I didn't cheat on him since we were together and I told him the truth so

WHAT MORE DOES HE WANT FROM ME?????

Choked

Hope Answers:

It sounds like he is really insecure, jealous, or not sure about your level of commitment to him. Or maybe he is sincerely trying to protect you, but is going about it in the wrong way.

Don't talk, just do things on your own.

Have you talked to him about this? Does he know he's "choking" you? If not, you need to tell him and give him a chance to lighten up.

But it is important that you try to understand why he is acting this wa

It doen't matter WHY he is doing it

y so you can deal with it. If that doesn't work, then you will have to decide if this is something you can handle for the long term or not! If he is just a jealous or insecure person by nature, his behavior will probably not change, and may even become dangerous.

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