Ask yourself what would happen if you did not tell your boyfriend you were going out on a whim, or who your were going to see, or exactly how long you would be gone.  I know *I'M* asking those questions.  It sounds to me like your boyfriend is trying to control you.  Would he react violently?  Would he feel hurt and end the relationship?  Would he work with you to compromise and make sure to let you know that your feelings are important and he will try to make you happy?

What do you think is the appropriate response, Choked?  Please take responsibility for the decisions you CAN make, for you are far from powerless and you always have the ability to terminate an unsatisfactory relationship.