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Dear Confused-
It Isn't Your Fault
I am glad that you haven't given such an insensitive person something
as precious and priceless as your virginity.
The natural thing for people in your situation to do is blame themselves
and wonder what they are doing wrong. Don't think for a minute that
this is your fault.
He's Cheating
Your boyfriend obviously is feeling heat. He is either cheating
on you and is trying to dump you without a confrontation or he is
uncomfortable that you two are getting serious and is trying to
break away. Considering you heard soft romantic music last time
you talked to him, I would go with the cheating theory. I have yet
to meet a guy who likes romantic music and plays it when he is alone.
The only time a guy would put up with mushy music is to impress
a girl.
Make a Clean Break
Trust me, I know guys. My best friend is one and I am a pretty
good judge of the good guys and those scummy ones. You were unlucky
enough to fall for scum. Don't feel bad though. You deserve better.
The best way to get over this guy is to break it off so you can
start healing. Make a clean break.
Confront Him
Confront him, try to talk to him in person. If you can't ever
get him alone you will have to try and phone him. Don't have someone
else break up with him. Get an explanation. Considering he is ignoring
you, he will most likely tell you the truth and avoid blantant lies.
Scummy Guys Are Easy To Forget
Don't worry. It may hurt now, but you'll discover that it is the
scummy guys who are the easiest to forget about.
– Summer-Chae
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