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Your
Chances Are Slim
Before making any moves,
I think you need to determine honestly if there is any chance of
a future for the two of you.
Since he is in a different
state and has a girlfriend, it looks
as though the chances are slim, at least for now.
Time To Walk Away
From The Relationship
So what would you accomplish
by staying in touch with him? Your relationship would probably not
get any closer, since he is obviously focusing his attention on
his girlfriend. This would be frustrating for you.
Even if he did keep in
touch with you, hearing about his new girlfriend wouldn't be a picnic
either. The more you correspond with him, the more your feelings
may intensify, which will make it worse in the long run to walk
away from the relationship.
This may be very difficult
to do, but I would give him some space right now and simply wait
to see if he contacts you.
Don't Call Him, Let
Him Call You
People
often say things like "we should stay in touch" or "let's get together
sometime." That is easy to say, but not always truthful. If he really
means it and wants to stay in touch with you, he will do it because
it will be important to him.
We live out our priorities!!!
Since you know he has
your number, he will call you if his feelings ever change toward
you and pursuing a relationship with you is really what he wants.
So, I would not call but just leave the ball in his court.
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