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Uh huh.
Sounds
Like a Typical Male Fantasy
Well, Lost, I'm not sure
I believe all this stuff because it sounds like a typical male fantasy.
One that I have once or twice a day. Read a book, bag the babes.
And I'm trying to do
the math. You had a serious relationship when you were 18 to 21,
off for 2 years, and then snookered all the gals. But you're only
23. And if you spend a month or so with each woman, it just doesn't
add up for me.
OK, whatever.
I don't know what you're
telling these women. Although you say you're not "directly" lying
and you "keep them guessing", it sounds a little stronger to me.
In the first couple of dates with a woman, I usually don't discuss
my intimate secrets, detailed plans of marriage, or the state of
the union.
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But
unfortunaely while people are trying to figure out if they're
compatible, they are also busy trying to SEEM like what the
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I try to find out if
we're compatible.
You
Are Typical for 23
That's what I assume
your women are doing. So why should either of you feel badly if
it ends after a month? To feel that you're a completely atypical
male because you want to meet a lot of women at age 23 sounds odd
to me.
Lots of women and lots
of men want to date around to see what's out there. But it sounds
to me like you're game playing and you might be darn good at it.
Even dating around, both partners should feel somewhat good about
the relationship.
 Are
You Devastating These Women?
If you are devastating
these women each time you leave them, if you build up false hopes
and ideas, yes, then you're probably doing something wrong.
So don't do it.
Why don't you go into
a relationship with the idea that you both can be enriched by it?
Your choice is not to be celibate or bang every woman in sight.
Try reading another book
about fulfillment and see if you can make sure that you are not
doing something morally wrong.
If you don't get any
action for a couple of months, that might not be such a bad thing
either.
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