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Back to what triggered this response.

Jody said:

If Patrick is using the porn for masturbation, which he probably is, he is demonstrating that he sees women as a tool to be used for self-satisfaction. Sex to him is something he GETS not a relationship he HAS.

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Hope said:

If you really care about what is best for your boyfriend's spiritual and emotional growth, as well as the health of your relationship long-term, you need to respect his desire to follow his convictions.

 

I agree! I am a person who has broken my vow with God, and have realized that I need to step back and stop doing what makes me feel sinful in the eyes of God.

Luckily, I understand that there is forgiveness and mercy, so I know that what I did will be wiped off my "slate."

It has been very difficult for my boyfriend and me the last few months trying to keep from acting on our passion. He is having trouble understanding why I could turn back to my "vow" when for almost four years, I was able to ignore it. I have grown up, and I realize that what we have done the past four years was an illustration of my immaturity and naivete.

I need my boyfriend now to support me in my decision. He's doing the best he can. We do plan on getting married in only a few short years.

If it's meant to be, it will be.

 

 

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