Reader Melissa Responds:
I agree because I think she hit this right on the head.
I also think that when you are the one who was dumped,
and not the dumper, it is easy to fantasize the relationship
to have been better than it really was.
If you have spent over 5 years with someone and you're
still comparing that present relationship with a past one,
then it is you who need some help, not your relationship.
Maybe a little closure would make all the difference.
– Melissa
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