Dear Panel,

Once upon a time, there was a 15 year old girl. She was just dumped by her best friend and was very VERY sad.

Then, about 4 years later (when she had tried to make herself happy) she met her boyfriend which she is still with, by the way. She became happy again and now she has her confidence back and she wants to meet other boys.

But she is afraid to be so hurt again, like 4 years ago, that she keeps her boyfriend. She loves him, but is not in love with him.

What must she do?

Must I go on with this relationship?

– Holland

Female, age 19