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Should I leave him and risk being hurt again?

Jayne Answers:

Dear Lover and Learner,

I'm sorry about the little girl who got her heart broken. I know how it feels. It is nearly devastating at that age, an experience in which no one ever thinks they'll survive... well almost no one.

But You Grew Up

See this little girl in your story figured out that it wasn't the end of the world and she grew up... She must've did something right, because she found a nice guy who cared about her... which shows that she cares about herself.

Rejection Isn't The End Of The World

To hear that this newly formed woman is afraid of rejection, has me a bit taken aback. Surely she must know that rejection is not the end of the world. And that no matter how much the phrase is used, "broken hearts" never shatter. She must also realize that rejection doesn't necessarily mean that the person who is being rejected is "bad" or "not good enough". It doesn't make them less of a person.

In fact this girl is even thinking of dumping her boyfriend , who didn't do anything wrong.

Move On And Be Strong

It's time for the woman to move on...

Lefty

But when she moves on she should be considerate of his feelings.

It's time for the woman to move on and be strong. No matter how many rejections or how many disappointments, as long as she loves herself someone else will eventually love her too. She is too young, brave and strong to be afraid.

– Jayne

 

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