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Dear Lover and Learner,
I'm sorry about the little girl who got her heart broken. I know
how it feels. It is nearly devastating at that age, an experience
in which no one ever thinks they'll survive... well almost no one.
But You Grew Up
See this little girl in your story figured out that it wasn't
the end of the world and she grew up... She must've did something
right, because she found a nice guy who cared about her... which
shows that she cares about herself.
Rejection Isn't The End Of The World
To hear that this newly formed woman is afraid of rejection, has
me a bit taken aback. Surely she must know that rejection is not
the end of the world. And that no matter how much the phrase is
used, "broken hearts" never shatter. She must also realize that
rejection doesn't necessarily mean that the person who is being
rejected is "bad" or "not good enough". It doesn't make them less
of a person.
In fact this girl is even thinking of dumping her boyfriend , who
didn't do anything wrong.
Move On And Be Strong
It's time for the woman to move on...
It's time for the woman to move on and be strong. No matter how
many rejections or how many disappointments, as long as she loves
herself someone else will eventually love her too. She is too young,
brave and strong to be afraid.
Jayne
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