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Wow...sounds a little
like what happened to me when I left for college.
I was dating someone
and we were so happy. Then I went 3 hours away for college while
he stayed. Things were really good at first but as I got more involved
in college life I started changing and he didn't. I wasn't "available"
for him, so he cheated on me.
People
Change
Now although that didn't
happen in this case the point is people change. When most people
go to college they do change in some way shape or form. I know it's
hard, and because of that, friendships that seemed like they would
last forever don't and relationships break up.
Your ex didn't go sour.
She was giving you some clues that she was changing. As you said:
she wasn't good at communicating so you would need to look at her
actions and not her words to know something is going on.
There
Are No Guarantees
There is no guarantee
in the game of love, although all of us wish we could get satisfaction
guaranteed. It's hard.
Although it seems that
you can never love another, just give it time. You will find someone
that is just as happy as you are, but keep your eyes open. If you
are sitting around mourning the loss of K then you might miss out
on that cute girl in the back of your math class.
I know for me, after
getting shafted as I did, I thought I could never love someone like
I had--but I was wrong.
Three months later I
met my current boyfriend. He fell for me but I was scared. I explained
what happened and he was patient enough to wait until I felt like
I could trust him.
It gets hard at times--he'll
say something and it makes me think of my ex and I get scared. But
as time goes on the heart heals and eventually your heart will open
and you can give your love freely to someone who truly deserves
it.
Moving
On...
BE CAUTIOUS...only give
to those who give the same amount.
And to move on? Start
dating again! Get back in there! Just don't try and find another
K because:
- that is unfair to
the other girl, putting expectations on her, and...
- you'll never find
her.
Hope I helped a little
=)
Time heals all wounds.
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