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Please do not marry him
if you are not sure of making this kind of commitment!
I think 20 is very young
to be getting married, regardless of the situation. But especially
in your case, it is important that you wait.
It will be painful to
both of you to call off the engagement. But that is nothing compared
to the pain you will cause (to yourself, to him, and to your children
if you have them) if you go ahead and get married while you are
so unsure.
From your letter, you
sound like you have settled for this guy. I know that's not the
feeling you want to have with the man you marry.
Please call off the engagement
and move out.
You need a break to sort
through your feelings.
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