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Please do not marry him if you are not sure of making this kind of commitment!

I think 20 is very young to be getting married, regardless of the situation. But especially in your case, it is important that you wait.

You're right, the pain will be much worse. I know, I have been there.

It will be painful to both of you to call off the engagement. But that is nothing compared to the pain you will cause (to yourself, to him, and to your children if you have them) if you go ahead and get married while you are so unsure.

From your letter, you sound like you have settled for this guy. I know that's not the feeling you want to have with the man you marry.

Please call off the engagement and move out.

You need a break to sort through your feelings.

 

 

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