Dear Panel,

I have been in a relationship with someone for 2 years now. He says he cares but cannot love me or go there at this time.

He is 2 years out of a 14 year marriage with children. (we met 7 months after he had left his marriage.) To further complicate things, he just left for a 3 year internship.

He says he doesn't know if he is in love or not.

Shouldn't he know how he feels by now???

In the beginning he said he knew it was too soon, but did not want it to stop... Am I fooling myself that he "could" love me?

Lady in waiting.......