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Unfortunately, it doesn't
sound good... If he openly admits to you that he does not love you
and that your relationship started too soon (which is probably a
signal that it was a rebound relationship), you would be foolish
to stick around hoping for a change.
Generally, if true love
is there, you will know it.
But
Don't Burn Your Bridges
Be thankful he leveled
with you now. But whatever you do, don't burn your bridges with
him. Sometimes we don't realize a good thing until it's gone. Since
he is leaving for awhile, the time apart might be a good testing
ground for the relationship. Perhaps after some time away, he might
realize what the relationship means to him and clarify his feelings
for you.
But
Don't Sit Around Waiting
But, again, I would NOT
sit around and wait for him. Pursue someone who has the capacity
to reciprocate your love. Don't settle for someone who isn't sure.
Protect your heart!
As I have told many
people at Love and Learn before, I truly believe that God loves
each one of us and wants to bless us. He wants to give us companionship.
Try to be patient and wait to see what He brings you. Don't settle
for an unbalanced relationship in which your feelings are not reciprocated.
Seek God and let Him unfold His plan for your life!
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