Dear Panel,

My boyfriend went on a holiday with his ex- girlfriend, and now i think he is chaeting on me?

Lefty Answers:

So...going on a holiday with her was your first clue? Um, what was your second clue?

Dear Panel,

My boyfriend broke up from my even though he told me he loves me and we have a great time together why?

Lefty Answers:

He lied.

Dear Panel,

Dear Panel, how can i belive my boyfriend when he is seeing someone else.what should i do stay with him or leave him

Lefty Answers:

Leave.

Dear Panel,

My ex girlfriend still loves me. The reason we split up was because she decided she needed to try to save her marriage. What can I do to get her back ?

Lefty Answers:

What word in "she is married" do you not understand?

Dear Panel,

I'm in love with a boy,but I don't think he likes me. What do I have to do to make him fall in love with me. Some information about him: 15 years old; I have only talked to him 4 times; he is shy.

Lefty Answers:

Punch his arm and see if he hits you back.

Dear Panel,

Hey! I'm an 18 year old guy who's been seeing a 27 year old guy for over a year.

I'm 25 years old and the girl i met is 18. should i even bother with it because there is an attraction between the both of us or should we just be friends?

Lefty Answers:

Depends. Is she a mature 18?

Dear Panel,

I've got a boyfriend. Last days we have every time a fight. I love him, and I don't want to loose him.Can you help me please?? Yesterday we've got a break. But he calls me up and we had talking. Now is everything ok. But for how long??

Lefty Answers:

You're just being rude because you don't know the whole story.

Not long.

Dear Panel,

i've got a little problem there;s a boy i like very much but how will i get to him?and there's a nother boy trying to mess it up for both of us by telling lies and calling me bad names how do i get writh of him? i hope you can help me. thank you.i'm glet you exist

Lefty Answers:

Tell the first boy that you like him and punch him in the arm. Tell the second boy that you hate him and punch him in the arm.

Dear Panel,

i have been seeing a 28 year old man for 8mos. i recently cheated on him with my ex-boyfriend and he has been told i'm really not sure what to do next?

Lefty Answers:

Watch TV and see who calls you first.

Dear Panel,

What is the mentality of a man who says that he loves you, you±re his best friend and that he±s really attracted you, but he doesn±t think that there±s long-term, marriage potential in your relationship? œMy spirituality is different from his.” This has nothing to do with religious beliefs. Please help me understand. Thanks.

Lefty Answers:

He probably has the mentality of someone who believes that in a perfect world with a perfect deity, he will find the perfect wife and you are not her.

Dear Panel,

I want to know how do you see that a guy is in love with you , I'm in love with a guy but he is very shy and he don't speak to me very much . I think he has some feelings for me but I don't know it for sure , what should I do to show him that I love him ????

Lefty Answers:

I disagree. You can discover a lot about a person without speaking to them.

How do you love someone who doesn't speak with you?

Dear Panel,

I'm in love with an older man. He's 8 years older than me. Have I got a chance with him? And o,I forgot, he lives in Ireland and I live in Belgium .

Lefty Answers:

Maybe

Dear Panel,

My girlfriend (25) and I had a passionate, real relationship up to about 3 weeks ago. Now she has emotionally distanced herself from me. She is supposed to be moving to be with me in a neighboring state. What should I do?

Lefty Answers:

Ask her?

Dear Panel,

I have really fallen for this girl that i've known for about a year and been good friends for half of that. She helped me about 6 months ago when this other girl rejected me. Then I fell for her and i'm wondering if I should follow what I feel for her. I haven't brought up the subject with her, but my best female friend who was talking with her, found out for me that she doesn't want a relationship, and her parents are quite strict. What should I do?

Lefty Answers:

Go for it. The worst thing she could do is reject you, and she might help you through that.

Dear Panel,

my friend is a lawer and he is helping me to find a better job, so he ask me to go to his office and drop my resume there. When i got there i got amazed by the assistance of the secretary. it was like love at first sight. i'm trying to find a way to ask her out, but there is a problem, i don't have that freedon to ask my friend her e-mail or phone number. i'm thinking about her every day.. what should i do??

Lefty Answers:

Revise your resume.

Dear Panel,

I love thiis girl in my 8th grade class, but she alwas is going out with someone besides me, I tried to ask her, but she ignored me :( how can I impress her?

Lefty Answers:

Impress her by doing something really smart. Like asking someone else out.

Dear Panel,

Their is this guy in school. I have liked him for a few months now. A few weeks ago, I found out that he had two girlfriends and going on for three. (Not me.) So, I try to stay away from him, but I can't. He always has a way of flirting with me and I can't let go. What should I do?

Lefty Answers:

Flirt with him. Then let go.

Dear Panel,

how do I get over a relationship that I thought was perfect?

Lefty Answers:

Berate yourself for not being the perfect person in that relationship and then find a real person.

Dear Panel,

we're not together but there is huge sexual tension. we both want each other but he falls for these popular model types and it seems he can't decide whether to go after them or me, his best friend. argh. i don't want to change him, i just can't figure out what he wants .

Lefty Answers:

It isn't that hard to figure out—even *I* know what he wants.

Dear Panel,

How do I know if a guy I work with likes me? He is really nice to me, calls me babe and baby and asked me to a party once but this is all I have to go on. Should I make a move?? and how?

Lefty Answers:

Depends. Do you like being called "baby"?

Dear Panel,

I' ve fallen for a girl with a boyfriend. what do I do?

Lefty Answers:

Get a girlfriend and double date.

Dear Panel,

i am in love with a boy, and he is in love with me but he is too shy to ask me to go out with me. Please give me a good advise.

Lefty Answers:

Write a 300 word essay on what you think "love" is.

Dear Panel,

I'm 20 and still a virgin. I've met a cool boy but I'm affraid to tell him

Lefty Answers:

Don't tell him.

Dear Panel,

Do you think i should tell my current boyfriend that i'm not a virgin anymore? If I should tell,do u think it will affect our relationship?

Lefty Answers:

You should definitely tell him if he was the one that caused you to lose your virginity.

Dear Panel,

I would like to know what women want in a man, and what is the best way for a 16 year old to approach a girl? Should I use pick-up lines, be original, or just flirt alot?

Lefty Answers:

Yes.

Dear Panel,

I have a friend who just recently started dating a girl that he's been friends with for a long time. My dilemma is that I now have become interested in this girl as well, but the fact that I don't want to hurt my friend is holding me back. Should I not let my feelings be known or should I go for the girl despite what my friend feels for her.

Lefty Answers:

I agree because I like writing essays. Really, sometimes people have to be forced to use their minds and understand what love and friendship is. -Shark Mama

Write a 300 word essay on what you think being a "friend" means.

Dear Panel,

How did someone win your heart?

Lefty Answers:

She said something that was very sarcastic in a nice way.

Dear Panel,

What to say when a guy asks what would you do to him in bed

Lefty Answers:

Goodbye