My philosophy in life is that if things were meant to be then they shall be.

To start things off I would like to say that I'm glad to see that you feel that your daughter is the most important thing in your life. And I'm also glad that you have at least a civil relationship towards the mother of your daughter.

I believe it's better for your daughter to have two loving parents that can communicate well rather than two parents that argue all the time.

Move Out

You're right. He needs to get his own place. This living situation is clouding his thinking.

Now about those feelings that you are feeling towards mom. To start things out, I think that you need to begin to save money so you can move into a place of your own. Staying together, neither one of you can move on or resolve anything. The feelings you are beginning to feel again are helped along by the fact that you see her everyday.

If You Don't Know How You Feel, Talking to Her Could Be Risky

I think that there is a greater risk if he doesn't talk to her and try and figure out what is going on.

As you said, you don't know how you would react if she wanted to be with you again. If you aren't sure of your feelings then don't risk it. You could end up getting kicked out of her house.

You might just be in a lonely position right now. Seeing her everyday you long for the past and you long to be with her, yet really you aren't longing for her but for someone to care. By her telling you that she has no feelings for you, you want to change that and make her have feelings for you again.

Just Move On

You can't change someone's mind. It's best to move on, look at the past and learn from it. Don't try and recreate it because that never happens.

Just take what you have, your lovely daughter and a friendship with the mother, and run with it. You'll find that someone you were meant to be with someday =)