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How can I say this. .
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it is in NO WAY "normal"
for a husband to have sex with a stranger just because there is
a party. I can't speak for the best man; I suspect it varies depending
on their own marital status and value system. When you become engaged
to someone, you are making a commitment to spend the rest of your
life living with, respecting, and caring for someone else.
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I
am confused. How do you define debauchery? Are you advocating
a double standard? |
Lest I sound like I am
a moralizing prude, let me tell you about bachelorette parties:
it is important for girlfriends to go out, have fun, and celebrate
being women. If that includes a little debauchery, that is fine.
But the occasion for
the event is still a wedding, and the marriage that will occur must
be respected. Your buddies may have watched a few too many talk
shows or pornos. I have never heard of bachelor (or the many bachelorette
parties I have attended) resulting in cheating - and that is what
sex with another woman is EVEN IF the groom
is not yet married and EVEN IF the woman is being paid for it.
 Your
Friends are Creepy & Warped
Your friends are kind
of creepy with a warped value system. Most men and women do not
share that value system, and the 90% figure they gave you is pure
fiction.
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