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Some of the decisions
we make can be tricky. This seems to be one of those things.
On one hand you have
someone you like that is leaving and you have the chance to do something
you have been dying to do, while on the other
hand you would be the other woman.
So what's a woman to
do?
Why
Put Yourself Through This
Try and think of what
would happen if you did sleep with John. You said you really like
him, so why would you want to ruin anything by sleeping with him?
He obviously is not looking for a relationship with you because
he is leaving for California. It seems to me like he is only trying
to get some before he flies off to a new land. Do you really want
to put yourself through that?
Another thing you said
was that his girlfriend is always around. Do you really want her
to start harassing you if she is that bitchy?
And how do you know that
she is so bitchy and that they fight all the time? Are you with
them so much you see them fighting?
How
Can You Know?
And how can you be so
sure he isn't still sleeping with her? Sure he might say it, but
if he didn't say that would you be messing around with him? I'm
going to go with no.
Just
Be Friends
My answer? Sure take
advantage of the time that you have left with him AS FRIENDS. In
the time remaining don't let him use you. But hey that's just me.
Whatever you do be careful and use protection always =)
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