Dear Panel,

If you really valued yourself this much, you wouldn't be putting up with this.

I'm Jane. I have been told I'm easy to get along with, laid back, and pretty, "a guy's dream"

John is funny, a good friend of about two years, and we liked each other right when we met.

How can you KNOW that they are not having sex?

Jen is John's girlfriend of 5 years. They don't have sex or ANY kind of relation. They just fight and Jen is a bitch. (promise me, if you met her, you would agree) She once threw something at John when they were fighting. hmmm.

Once upon a time, Jane (me) wanted John but my friend told me noooo, he is with Jen and she is a bitch, and she will not let ANYONE near him. So, I went out with others and years later we're up at school together and we are good friends who like each other a lot.

What a line! Don't believe him.

John wants to get away from Jen, so he is moving to California, but until then, she will always be there.

WELL. Jane and John have not obeyed the rules. We have messed around and sex is right around the corner, but... Jane really likes John, so she (or me) has decided to not touch him anymore because being the other girl is shitty.

What I am asking is: should I take advantage of the time I have left with John?

- Jane