Dear Panel,

I have been married for five years and I have three daughters.

Recently, I have grown attracted to a young 18 year old girl.

There have been problems for about two years with my spouse. I am afraid to leave my wife and children, for I know they will be hurt. They also rely soley on my income.

I really like this new girl and I feel that this is the direction that my heart wants to go, but the responsibility of keeping the family intact is strong as well.

What should I do?

- Cad