So, you've "become attracted" to an 18 year old girl. What does that mean?

I would guess that you have not known this girl for over one year, because then she would have been 17 and illegal for most immoral purposes. Did you meet her at her high school prom?

This is Not Good

You're right, he is playing with fire!

It's not a good thing to leave a marriage, a relationship that you firmly committed to, because you think that your heart may be "heading you in another direction". Where was your heart when you decided to get married? Where was your heart when you decided to have children?

Does your heart decide on other directions when you see nice tight teenage female bodies which have not yet had your children? Is it really your heart or another part of your male anatomy which is leading you in another direction?

If you are having "problems" with your spouse and yet you think you would "hurt" her if you left, it indicates that there are still feelings between the two of you. Before you dump your wife and children for some "recent" teenager, work on your relationship with your wife.

If You are Going to Get a Divorce, Do It For the Right Reasons

Don't jump into another relationship as an escape. If you are going to dissolve your marriage, at least put some effort into it. If you decide on a divorce at least do it for the right reasons.

There Will Always be More 18 Year Olds

After all, there will always be another 18 year old you can become attracted to; those 17 year olds keep on getting a year older.

Lefty