Dear Miss Lovely,

You not only look mature, you act mature.

It's very mature to say to someone you like that you think the future between you won't work. Yep, when you're 14, stay away from older guys...particularly out-of-high-school guys.

As a parent, and as a person who cares about teens, I applaud you.

Don't worry, if you're wowing 20 year olds at 14, just wait until you are a bit older and see how well you do! Don't be sad about losing this guy, there will be plenty more who are interested.

Love,

Charlie