Dear Panel,

My girlfriend and I are both 21 years old. We have been having sex for about 2 months. The only problem is that I was a virgin before I met her, and she has had sex with 3 guys before me. I am inexperienced and she isn't.

She tells me that she loves for the guy to know what he is doing, and that I just can't do that. She says, "I'm getting better, but not where I need to be." She says, "I just don't move right. She has her orgasms, but she says that our sex could be a lot better.

This has caused a gap in our relationship, and she wants to date other people. She says that she isn't over her last boyfriend, who she broke up with the week before we started dating, and that she wants to make sure of the guy this time.

She has been seeing a guy she was formerly engaged to, the only reason she dates him is because he just broke up with his girlfriend and my girlfriend felt sorry for him. This has been going on for about 1 month.

Hoo boy, are YOU naive.

She tells me that she isn't going to have sex with anyone else, and I believe her because that is one thing that has impressed me is that she is honest, and tells me everything no matter if it hurts or if it is something good.

She says that I am perfect with every respect, and that she could see herself marring me one day, but I have to be better in bed.

Do you have any suggestions, books I could read, or something that I need to say to her.

Help please, I feel a lot for this girl, and I want the best for both of us.