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Jody said:

If Patrick is using the porn for masturbation, which he probably is, he is demonstrating that he sees women as a tool to be used for self-satisfaction. Sex to him is something he GETS not a relationship he HAS.

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Hope said:

First and foremost, if he is asking for or expecting sex early in a relationship, it is clear that he is simply interested in fulfilling his own pleasure and not in your welfare or feelings.

I agree because, well this happened to me.

When I was younger I had been going out with this guy for like 2 weeks and I was totally into him. I like fell in love with him.

Big mistake: we were at a party one night and he asked me to have sex it took me a while to figure out my answer considering it was my first time. So I did it, and the next day he dumped me.

I cried every night knowing that I gave up my respect for myself, my virginity, my body to some creep that I thought I loved and I thought he loved me, but he only cared about getting some and conquering his own pleasures.

I would give the advice that Hope gave to anyone that tells me they think they are ready to have sex with a guy.

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