Afraid of losing myself

Dear Panel,

I am in a wonderful relationship with someone I love very much.

We have been talking about marriage, and all of a sudden I am feeling threatened and frightened of losing my autonomy. I have always eventually felt bullied by other boyfriends, and I don't want it to happen in this relationship.

What do I do?

- Scared of Losing Myself





	See a therapist
You are more afraid of commitment		Share your fears with your boyfriend.

The Other Side: You might want to also read the question from a guy whose girlfriend was feeling something similar to this woman.