Dear Girl In Love,

I understand that you are confused about your feelings. But you said yourself that you find it difficult to touch him and to look at him. Whenever you doubt about anything, you shouldn't do it. It is wrong of that man to see you while he's got a wife and kids, and also because he's way older than you are.

I agree . Let me tell you what happened to my cousin.

I think he's manipulating you, especially by pressuring you to shut your mouth. I really think you should find another adult to talk about this secret relationship. (Your parents?)

That's part of the problem; she doesn't know that she deserves better because she has low self esteem.

You do deserve better, and he knows that too. I know it's hard to quit, 'cause it's always very nice when someone pays (so much) attention to you, but when I hear your story: he's NOT good for you.

Good luck!

Sanne