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Dear Brant,
Welcome to the real
life world of uneven romance. You love too much, she still loves
her ex. If you loved her too little, she might be crawling all over
you. Such is the unfairness of life in the fast-lane of young romance.
No one said this love stuff was going to be easy, right?
Right.
You
Sound Superficial
Forgive me, but for a
25 year old who thinks he is intelligent and sensitive, you are
not showing too many examples of either of these traits in this
situation. After all, you say you are not attracted to even slightly
overweight woman.You may be ruling out some pretty incredible partners
from your life.
You talk about a woman's
breasts like they were some gymnasium apparatus..something for you
to size up and play with. Hopefully this is simply a sign of you
being in your mid-twenties and these viewpoints will not carry with
you throughout your life. If they do, you are determined to have
some pretty shallow relationships with women.
You work with this woman.
These office situations can often get messy for many reasons, but...there
are plenty of people finding romance at work. You're not the first
and you won't be the last. The tough part is when things do not
go well, for one reason or another, and you still have to pass each
other in the hallway without flinching.
You might want to consider
exercising some understanding and restraint rather than jealousy.
She is still hung up on her old boyfriend. Let her work it out.
Don't pressure her.
If you and this 19 year
old nymphet with the ample chest are meant to be, she will be knocking
at your door.
If not, you might want
to think twice about pouring your energy into a love that can't
be and consider looking for someone (yes, even slightly overweight
possibitiies) who are in a position to return your affection.
Carolcat
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