Dear Panel,

I have been with my boyfriend for a grand total of five years. I still really love him but I feel that we are growing apart.

We both attend different colleges and I am close to graduating where as he has no idea what he wants to do with his life.

I on the other hand am very sure about what I want to do with my life.

The problem is, we are living together this summer. And I feel like I am just using him for a place to live in the meantime until I graduate and actually begin my life.

Will he ever grow up and get goals, or am I wasting my time on this one?

HELP!

-Belle