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Guys
are Mentally 4 Years Behind Girls
You know it's scientifically
proven that guys are mentally 4 years behind on girls. Based on
this fact you just have to wait another 4 years until he gets where
you are now. Hmmm, not really good news.
But you can also talk
to him,you don't have to ask him straight what he wants in life,but
you can ask what he wants to do for living,if he says he doesn't
know, you can make it clear (in a NICE way!!) that he should finally
decide.
You can start a nice
conversation that it seems like a little chat to him,but a serious
talk to you...and tell him about your plans.
About living together,you
should ask how he feels about it. You might even tell him about
your doubts. You've been with this guy for 5 years, have you had
any doubts about this relationship in these 5 years? Or did it start
now that you're going to live together?
You might be nervous,
for the things that will follow. If these doubts have been there
for a longer time,you should think about your feelings for him.
Are you still in love with him?
I think it will all be
okay in a while. The best thing you can do is talk,but don't get
angry when he can't decide. Then you should think of it as his problem
and base your decision on your own goals in life. You can't force
him to choose,but you can help in making up his mind.
But remember: don't get
angry,he might think you're too pushy and break up.
Lots of love,
Erna
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