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Dear Worried,
You Are Not Ready
Your boyfriend sounds like he's a decent guy for trying to let
you make the first move but it sounds like you aren't actually ready
to do so.
While many guys would love to be the first to a virgin, a lot also
have apprehension because it can be a big responsibility as well.
A whole new flood of emotions can develop for a virgin female having
sex with a non-virgin male.
Don't give it up too quick, but if in fact, you are really ready
for this, talk to him about it. While spontaneity is nice, you have
to do some planning to make sure you are prepared, i.e. have condoms
ready, etc.
I think it is very important that you are confident when you decide
the time is right and you should definitely initiate the move. Otherwise
you might feel later that you were pressured and resent him for
it.
He seems like he is respecting your inexperience, but if you want
to be his equal and not his project, you need to build up a little
confidence and let him know what you want.
 But
Wait... There's More
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I agree because the most important
is the communication.
– Ricky |
Laying flat on your back isn't going to make him feel that you
are enjoying the intimacy as much as he is. Be bold and don't always
wait for the first kiss. Chances are, if he cares about you as you
say he does, anytime will be the right time.
– Alicia
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