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Dear Sarah,
NO! You don't expect
too much - this guy's just being a jerk.
Apologies for hurtful
comments and insensitive remarks are all well and good, but if he
keeps it up, he's obviously not committed to changing his behavior.
Long distance is tough
to begin with, but it certainly isn't worth the trouble and extra
effort if both parties aren't devoted to making it work.
In my opinion, you should
chalk this up as a learning experience, tell him it's over, and
find a man who'll appreciate you and reciprocate your feelings and
love.
 You're
in a Great Social Environment
I don't mean go hunting
for one, but you're in a social environment to begin with (college),
and the good guys are out there somewhere.
You write that your feelings
are slipping anyway, that you know you're not in love with him -
go with your gut, finish it and move on. Experience here has nothing
to do with it. If you feel like you're being neglected or not treated
as well as you'd like, take control and walk away (especially considering
you've raised the issue and he doesn't seem to want to change).
Only you know what's
right for you, and there's someone out there who'll satisfy that.
You two will find each other!
Mensch
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