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I can definitely understand
why you're frustrated.
I don't see how this
situation can change, except with the passing of time as she begins
to trust you more and more. Just continue to show you support her
and want to know about her past. When she tells you things, try
to react in a non-judgmental way.
However, if this is
a question of her being dishonest in other ways, then you do have
a problem. (It doesn't sound like that's going on though.)
 Did
She Get Counseling After Her Rape?
Can you guys try to have
a discussion about why talking about sex is difficult for her? It
may be closely tied to her experience with being raped. Did she
get counseling after that happened? It might be a good idea for
her to talk to a therapist about her problems with trusting you.
It sounds like you are
being as patient and understanding as you can, and I admire that.
Maybe a counselor could help you understand her perspective, as
well.
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