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Dear Not A Player,
The only thing that proves
that you are not a player is your actions. They speak louder than
words. (Sorry for the cliché).
It's reasonable why he
wouldn't trust you. I've been in his position before...you
could be all game and no real action. If he were writing this
letter to me about whether he should take you back, I'd be
all like "No." 'Cause it wouldn't be worth him getting
hurt again.
But if you're sure this
time that you're mature enough to stick around and that you care
for him enough to be there then you need to really communicate to
him how much you love him and care for him, every day.
Tell him how good he
is and be there for him. , and just be real with him. That's all
you can do, because there's no magic potion or formula to undo the
damage that the pain which you brought on has caused.
Ultimately, it's
up to him.
Good luck,
Jayne
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