Wow...I don't even know where to begin.

Let's start out then with the subject of friendship.

Friendship

You say that you got screwed over by your roommates and now you can't trust anyone but your boyfriend EVEN THOUGH you had ANOTHER friend that let you move in. Well what's so wrong with that friend? They took you in when you were having a hard time-does that not count?

Trust

Now for the whole trust issue. I can totally relate to you on one level—after being screwed over it gets tougher for you to trust someone. But you learn from it and get over it.

It's time that you wake up, roll out of bed and wave hello to the real world where people lie and will screw you over on purpose. If you can't handle it now don't even bother being in the real world. This is getting way off the subject but in life there are many people that will lie, cheat, steal all just to get ahead.

There are good people out there...you just need to weed out the bad ones. You found some bad people in your ex-roommates so now it's time to stop hiding behind your boyfriend and make new friends.

Boyfriends

I agree , she needs other friends, too.

Now this whole boyfriend issue? This is just my opinion but I think that you are placing waaayyyy too much pressure on the guy when he had nothing to do with what happened. You're placing your whole well being on how he is the only true friend that you have.

What if one day he isn't there for you? I know you're reading this thinking 'well that's not going to happen because he's always going to be there for me.' But you don't know what can happen tomorrow. You are taking this relationship for granted and you are taking Kyle for granted.

It Sounds Like You're Using Him

You're right, and I think that that is what she is aftaid of.

You say you don't want to lose him because you need friends. What kind of reason is that? It sounds like you are only using him.

Another thing that you said was that you are relying on him as a best friend instead of a boyfriend. Well your boyfriend should be somewhat of your best friend or why bother being in the relationship? If you feel that he's more of a best friend than a boyfriend then maybe it's time you reevaluate your life for you. You have become so dependent on him I wonder if you can live your life for you instead of if he is still your friend or not.

What's Your Problem?

So to answer your question now: I'm not quite sure of what relationship problems you are talking about. You didn't state any problems in the relationship that the two of you know are there. All I read was a bunch of fears in your head. You aren't overanalyzing things-you're just being too dependent on your boyfriend.

I know that all of my boyfriend's friends think that I am "really cool to be dating" and when I asked why they said "Cuz you always let ***** (name omitted to protect the innocent!!) do things without you." Now what they mean is my boyfriend has his life, I have mine, and whenever possible we get together and share them.

Kyle will appreciate you more when you begin to make new friends and let him breathe a little. Just a tip I learned- guys want to be with you more when you aren't available all the time. =) Good luck and I hope you try to make new friend's