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This sounds like the
ideal situation to be in.
You are clearly very
close. You are friends first, which I happen to think is the most
important ingredient to a good, real relationship.
You sound a bit worried
that he hasn't broken it off with his girlfriend.
I guess if I were you,
I would give him a time frame in my own mind, like 1 month. If he
and she are still together in a month, then talk with him about
when he said he was breaking up.
I think I would not let him know that I was eager to see him romantically,
but I would ask as a friend.
If you feel desperate
about him, then I would take some time away from him. Desperate
feelings only bring out resentment and negative interaction. He
wants you as a friend, you value his friendship, if it is destined
to turn into something more, it will. Be patient, and enjoy the
time you have together. You never know!
Love,
Charlie
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